Have sex outside

No matter how fun and satisfying your sex life with your best girl is, there's something exhilarating about throwing a little danger into your routine. Enter: having sex in public. Wendy Strgar, author of Love That Works: A Guide to Enduring Intimacy , says what's hot for most people about having sex in public is how it takes you out of the realm of comfort. It's the experience itself that's memorable.

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My First Time is a column and podcast series exploring sexuality, gender, and kink with the wide-eyed curiosity of a virgin. We all know your "first time" is about a lot more than just popping your cherry. From experimenting with kink to just trying something new and wild, everyone experiences thousands of first times in the bedroom—that's how sex stays fun, right?

Part of the excitement of having sex outside is the danger of getting caught or being seen. It feels naughty and brazen. What are they doing?!